About The Author

Thomas Caffrey


I’m a college student studying computer science in Southern California. One of my favorite things to do is heading to Starbucks with a good friend and talking for a few hours over coffee. I’m an ESFJ and an Enneagram 6. I really value community, both here on YOB and at school and church. A good song in my head is an essential part of a good day (never try to separate me from my Spotify Premium) and grocery shopping and cooking are my go-to stress relievers.

My Greatest Fear in Coming Out

Sometimes it’s as if “coming out” and getting rid of the wall between my same-sex attractions and the rest of me will somehow make my sexuality more real.

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