Thomas Mark Zuniga

Chronic wanderer and melancholic delighter in the what-comes-next. I'm YOB's cofounder and editor, and I also host our podcast. I've written a couple books and first started fleshing out my story of faith and same-sex attraction years ago under the Xanga username "Two Beckonings." I'm an INFJ, Enneagram Type 4, and my favorite place is the one where coffee and vulnerability meet. Feel free to reach out if we've yet to connect; maybe it was ever ago planned that we one day would?

I Don’t Want More Same-Sex Attracted Friends

I’d had enough of life with only these types of strong male friendships while the other types of male friendships went severely lacking. Couldn’t I just have “normal” heterosexual guy friends?

Torn Between Two Beckonings

Without the past, we have no future. We either let the past keep us in chains, or the past props us up, prods us forward, pushes us to greater heights.

Christians Struggling With Homosexuality

In 2008 I entered a desperate Google search: “Christians struggling with homosexuality.” Finding that Xanga blogring community changed my life forever.