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YOB ConvoCast 047: Wes Wants You to Please Touch Him as a TWO!!
24 June 2022
YOB ConvoCast 047: Wes Wants You to Please Touch Him as a TWO!
Since so much of the Two's identity is tied to other people, we dive into this realm of "relating with other men" more than any other episode of this series. In particular, how does a Two respond to that precious loss in male friendship? How does a Two feel a sense of belonging with a community? How important is coming out for a Two? Wes also shares about the Two's relating with God: does a Two feel beautiful in God's eyes or merely tolerable to His purposes? How does the Two experience pride and manipulation in times of stress, and how does the Two experience self-care that isn't selfish during times of
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YOB ConvoCast 046: Jesse Can Summon Two Hours of Fun as a ONE!
17 June 2022
YOB ConvoCast 046: Jesse Can Summon Two Hours of Fun as a ONE!
We continue our Enneagram ConvoCast series with a beloved member of our community, Jesse! Jesse shares with Tom his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type One (the Perfectionist or Reformer). As a member of our YOB community, how does his One-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other
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YOB ConvoCast 044: Matt Will Love You Long and Hard as an EIGHT!
27 May 2022
YOB ConvoCast 044: Matt Will Love You Long and Hard as an EIGHT!
We kick off our Enneagram ConvoCast series with Mr. Eight himself: Matt! Matt shares with Tom about his motivations, fears, stress, and security as a Type Eight (the Challenger). As a member of our YOB community, how does his Eight-ness manifest in the realms of sexuality, masculinity, and relating with other
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Your Other Brothers Podcast | 095: The Enneagram
20 May 2022
YOBcast 095: The Enneagram
We’ve referenced it again and again for dozens of episodes, and now we’re finally devoting an entire episode to the Enneagram! We open up the Enneagram box and share what we’ve found helpful for our personal growth in this trendy personality system. How does the Enneagram impact our self-awareness? And how does this self-awareness impact our view of others? Join Tom, Ryan, and Ben for an overview of the Enneagram! We dive into the stats of all the types in our community and share a little about our own types. And get ready for the YOB ConvoCast summer series to come, featuring discussions with each of the nine types in our
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Loving Others More Affectionately Didn't Turn Out as Expected
27 May 2020
Loving Others More Affectionately Didn’t Turn Out as Expected
2019 started out with a vision for a cosy, snug year, bundling up in the warmth of other people's bosoms. For those summer months, I was blessed to see that vision fulfilled, experiencing and giving love just the way I wanted. As for the rest of the year, well, God sure taught me another side to loving people than what I'd
by Daniel Marquez
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Why I'm Attracted to Other Guys (and Who Cares?)
30 October 2019
Why I’m Attracted to Other Guys (and Who Cares?)
I've had at least a decade to process my sexuality, why certain men "do it" for me and why others do not. I've already written about what kinds of guys I'm attracted to and my cycles of physical and emotional same-sex attraction. But am I sexually attracted to men? The answer has become so clear over the last couple years:
by Thomas Mark Zuniga
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29 January 2018
How an Alpha Male Became My Close Friend
A straight and very strong "alpha male" type leader has constantly challenged me to go beyond what is safe and comfortable to accomplish more of what really matters. We started becoming close friends, so I shared with him that I deal with same-sex
by Marshall
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I'm Almost 30 and I've Never Been Kissed
25 April 2016
I’m Almost 30 and I’ve Never Been Kissed
Among myriad other losses I could mourn about, I consider how I'm almost 30 and ache over this lack-of-experience that I've never been
by Thomas Mark Zuniga
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I've Always Wanted a Big Brother
6 January 2016
I’ve Always Wanted a Big Brother
My whole life I've wanted the love of a big brother. I've always wanted to press into someone bigger than me, someone stronger, someone wiser. A big brother to hold me, a big brother to comfort me, a big brother to tell me everything will be okay because he's right there and he's not going to let me
by Thomas Mark Zuniga
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