August

YOBcast Episode 062: “Side A” Friends

August 1, 2020 | Podcast, YOBcast |

July

The Church vs. the LGBTQ+ Community: A More Compelling Narrative?

July 28, 2020 | Musings |
I’ve Never Tried to Pray the Gay Away

July 22, 2020 | Lifestories |
YOBcast Episode 061: Gratitude

July 17, 2020 | Podcast, YOBcast |
Is Jesus Worth Following With My Sexuality?

July 14, 2020 | Lifestories |
How Waiting With Hope is Teaching Me Patience

July 8, 2020 | Lifestories |
Longing for Intimacy with Straight Guy Friends

July 1, 2020 | Lifestories |

June

YOB on Brief Hiatus as Tom Recuperates

June 19, 2020 | News |
I Don’t Want God’s Peace Like a River

June 3, 2020 | Lifestories |

May

Loving Others More Affectionately Didn’t Turn Out as Expected

May 27, 2020 | Lifestories |
Authenticity with Jesus and Others Isn’t Easy

May 20, 2020 | Lifestories |
When God’s Peace is Hard to Find

May 13, 2020 | Lifestories |
Corona ConvoCast 22: Tom and Ryan Solve All the Plot Holes!

May 8, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 21: Tom and Jacob Lose Touch!

May 7, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
This Secret Longing to be Held by a Stronger Man

May 6, 2020 | Lifestories |
Corona ConvoCast 20: Tom and Nate Lose Control!

May 5, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 19: Tom and Dean Go Back to Pawnee!

May 1, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |

April

Corona ConvoCast 18: Tom and Matt Speak Navajo!

April 30, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
A Conversation with Your Other Brothers in This Pandemic

April 29, 2020 | Conversations |
Corona ConvoCast 17: Tom and Andy Have a Totally Normal Conversation!

April 28, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 16: Tom and Ben Met at an Irish Pub!

April 27, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 15: Tom and Daniel Dissect the Nuclear Family!

April 24, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 14: Tom and Jacob Murder Turkeys!

April 23, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Isolation Amid Covid-19 and Hope for the Future

April 22, 2020 | Musings |
Corona ConvoCast 13: Tom and Marshall Acquire Furniture as Adults!

April 21, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 12: Tom and Dean and the “Of Course, Tom” Face!

April 20, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 11: Tom and Ryan Are Cookin’ and CrossFittin’!

April 16, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 10: Tom and Matt Wanna See a Drive-In Movie!

April 15, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
The Coronavirus Pandemic and the “Side B” Community’s Special Role in the Church

April 14, 2020 | Musings |
Corona ConvoCast 09: Tom and Nate Talk TikTok and Survivor!

April 13, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 08: You and the Lord on Good Friday

April 10, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 07: Tom and Eugene and the Side B Capital of the World!

April 9, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 06: Tom and Daniel Zoom Across the Pond!

April 8, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
The Struggle to Forgive Yourself for Sexual Failures

April 7, 2020 | Lifestories |
Corona ConvoCast 05: Tom and Andy Barely Escaped New Orleans!

April 6, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 04: Tom and Dean Remember How They Met!

April 3, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 03: Tom and Matt Go Boarding!

April 2, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
How to Express Joy in My Queerness?

April 1, 2020 | Lifestories |

March

Corona ConvoCast 02: Tom and Marshall Go to Seattle!

March 31, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
Corona ConvoCast 01: Tom and Nate and the Mousey Elephant!

March 30, 2020 | ConvoCast, Podcast |
YOBcast Episode 060: Fear

March 27, 2020 | Podcast, YOBcast |
Am I a Burden or a Gift to the Church as a Gay Celibate Man?

March 17, 2020 | Lifestories |
YOBcast Episode 059 (LIVE): Favorite Blogs!

March 13, 2020 | Podcast, YOBcast |
The First Same-Sex Attracted Christian Man I Met

March 3, 2020 | Lifestories |

February

YOBcast Episode 058: Loneliness v. Solitude

February 28, 2020 | Podcast, YOBcast |
Deciding to Love Others More Affectionately

February 25, 2020 | Lifestories |
Our Redesigned Site! Featuring Our Three Bedrocks

February 21, 2020 | Video |
Do I Still Pray the Gay Away?

February 18, 2020 | Lifestories |
YOBcast Episode 057: Gay Sex and Hookups

February 14, 2020 | Podcast, YOBcast |
We Have a Brand New Logo! (And Website.)

February 10, 2020 | News |
What is Love as a Queer Man?

February 4, 2020 | Lifestories |

January

Pornography, Promiscuity, Praise. Repeat.

January 28, 2020 | Lifestories |
YOBcast Episode 056: Pornography

January 24, 2020 | Podcast, YOBcast |
Why You Should Pursue “Side B” Community

January 21, 2020 | Lifestories |
“Coming Out” of the Country: Learning Who God Is

January 14, 2020 | Lifestories |
YOBcast Episode 055: Mentors

January 10, 2020 | Podcast, YOBcast |
Fruit of the Spirit: A Queer Man’s Journey for 2020

January 7, 2020 | Lifestories |

December

We’re on Holiday Hiatus!

December 31, 2019 | News |
How I’ve Thrived in Intentional Community

December 20, 2019 | Lifestories |
Naked and Unashamed in the Locker Room

December 17, 2019 | Lifestories |
YOBcast Episode 054: Holiday Singleness

December 13, 2019 | Podcast, YOBcast |
I’m Tired of Always Understanding

December 10, 2019 | Lifestories |
Coming Out and Confessing to My Pastor

December 6, 2019 | Lifestories |
Thanksgiving is the Worst! And Also Yearlong.

December 4, 2019 | Video |

November

Why I Love “Stand By Me”

November 26, 2019 | Musings |
I’m Just Not That Into Physical Touch Anymore

November 21, 2019 | Lifestories |
Do I Like Physical Touch Now?

November 15, 2019 | Lifestories |
The Day I Came Out to My Wife

November 12, 2019 | Lifestories |
YOBcast Episode 053: Brothers! w/ Jacob & Nate

November 8, 2019 | Podcast, YOBcast |
Why I Go to Pornography: Kicking Off #NoPornNovember

November 5, 2019 | Lifestories |
MANLY MONTHLY PREMIERE!

November 1, 2019 | Video |

October

Why I’m Attracted to Other Guys (and Who Cares?)

October 30, 2019 | Lifestories, Popular |
Readying Myself for Coming Out to My Mom and Dad

October 22, 2019 | Lifestories |
What Happened After Coming Out at My Christian Camp

October 16, 2019 | Lifestories |
YOBcast Episode 052: Chosen Family

October 11, 2019 | Podcast, YOBcast |
I Still Struggle to be Vulnerable

October 8, 2019 | Lifestories |
When I’m Attracted to Other Guys

October 4, 2019 | Lifestories |
How Joshua Harris’s Church Was Safe for Me

October 2, 2019 | Lifestories |

September

Befriending Straight Guys: The Final Frontier

September 27, 2019 | Lifestories |
I Just Wanna Go Home

September 24, 2019 | Lifestories |
Why Do We Follow a “Side B” Sexual Ethic?

September 20, 2019 | Musings |
Do I Follow the God of Yes or the God of No?

September 17, 2019 | Lifestories |
Do Our Stories Actually Point to Jesus?

September 11, 2019 | Musings |
YOBcast Episode 051: Attachment Styles

September 6, 2019 | Podcast, YOBcast |
I Just Want a Flippin Man!

September 3, 2019 | Lifestories |

August

Celebrating 3 Years on Patreon!

August 30, 2019 | News |
What Attracts Me to Other Guys

August 27, 2019 | Lifestories |
Allowing Myself to Thrive in Missional Community

August 20, 2019 | Lifestories |
Self-Hatred and the Struggles of Being Gay

August 16, 2019 | Lifestories |
Here and Queer: Redeeming My Sexual and Gender Identity

August 13, 2019 | Lifestories |
Saying Goodbye to Emotional Dependency — and My Best Friend

August 9, 2019 | Lifestories |
Running from the Call to Come Out

August 6, 2019 | Lifestories, Popular |
YOBcast Episode 050: Emotional Attachment

August 2, 2019 | Podcast, YOBcast |

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