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June
2019
Revoice 2019: So Much to Learn and Love
June 20, 2019
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Conversations
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I Was Fifteen Minutes Away from the PULSE Shooting
June 12, 2019
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Lifestories
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Receiving Brotherhood at the YOBBERS Retreat
June 10, 2019
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Lifestories
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Finding Humility Through Beauty at the YOBBERS Retreat
June 4, 2019
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Lifestories
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May
2019
Crying with Hope at the YOBBERS Retreat
May 31, 2019
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Lifestories
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Please Don’t Let Our Second YOBBERS Retreat Suck
May 28, 2019
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Conversations
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Retreat Posts (and More) Coming Soon!
May 21, 2019
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News
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My Sexuality is a Gift from God
May 14, 2019
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Lifestories
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YOBcast Episode 049: Letting Go
May 10, 2019
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Podcast
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April
2019
State of the YOB! April 2019
April 30, 2019
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State of the YOB
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Video
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Why I Love “Band of Brothers”
April 30, 2019
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Musings
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Are We Asking LGBT+ People the Right Questions?
April 26, 2019
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Musings
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Wounded Sparrow Seeking Home: Intro to a Queer, Married Pastor
April 23, 2019
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Lifestories
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Navigating Faith, Homosexuality, and Masculinity. On Easter.
April 17, 2019
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Lifestories
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The Last Ever Episode of Manly Monday?!
April 15, 2019
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Manly Monday
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Video
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YOBcast Episode 048: More Intimacy
April 12, 2019
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Podcast
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Who Am I to Lead Others?
April 10, 2019
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Lifestories
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“Supernatural” and the World of Male-Male Relationships
April 5, 2019
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Musings
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March
2019
State of the YOB! March 2019
March 31, 2019
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State of the YOB
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Video
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YOB Under Construction!
March 30, 2019
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News
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The Hidden Blessings of Our Sexualities
March 26, 2019
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Musings
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Why I Don’t Call Myself Gay
March 22, 2019
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Musings
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Idolatry Ruins a Friendship
March 19, 2019
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Lifestories
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YOBcast Episode 047: Intimacy
March 15, 2019
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Podcast
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I’m Giving Up Masturbation for Lent
March 13, 2019
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Lifestories
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CrossFit Reveals My Biggest Struggle is Masculinity
March 11, 2019
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Manly Monday
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Video
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That One Summer My Friend Declared His Love for Me
March 8, 2019
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Lifestories
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How My Best Friend’s Relationship Affects Me
March 5, 2019
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Lifestories
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February
2019
State of the YOB! February 2019
February 28, 2019
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State of the YOB
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Video
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Sobering and Necessary: Our Response to “Boy Erased”
February 26, 2019
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Conversations
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Popular
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I Hate Being a Sensitive Man Who Feels Things
February 21, 2019
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Lifestories
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YOBcast Episode 046: Church Inclusion
February 15, 2019
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Podcast
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Physical Affection Ruins a Friendship
February 14, 2019
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Lifestories
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It’s Okay for Men to Cry
February 11, 2019
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Manly Monday
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Video
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Fitness for the Fearful Gay Man
February 8, 2019
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Lifestories
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What I Learned from My Midlife Crisis
February 5, 2019
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Lifestories
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January
2019
State of the YOB! January 2019
January 30, 2019
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State of the YOB
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Video
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About that Gillette Commercial and Toxic Masculinity…
January 25, 2019
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Conversations
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Breaking Down the Idol of Brotherhood
January 22, 2019
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Lifestories
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YOBcast Episode 045: Self-Care
January 19, 2019
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Podcast
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Codependency Ruins a Friendship
January 18, 2019
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Lifestories
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I Wanted to be Ex-Gay
January 15, 2019
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Lifestories
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What Does Jesus Think of Me Now?
January 11, 2019
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Lifestories
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SHIRTLESS POOL WRESTLING!!!
January 8, 2019
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Lifestories
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December
2018
State of the YOB! December 2018
December 31, 2018
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State of the YOB
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Video
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I Like a Girl?
December 19, 2018
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Lifestories
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YOBcast Episode 044: Jesus
December 14, 2018
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Podcast
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“Pray the Gay Away” This Christmas
December 10, 2018
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Manly Monday
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Video
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Free from Caring for my Elderly Father
December 7, 2018
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Lifestories
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Is This Physical Acceptance With Another Man?
December 4, 2018
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Lifestories
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November
2018
State of the YOB! November 2018
November 30, 2018
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State of the YOB
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Video
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How I’ll Heal in the Next Life
November 29, 2018
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Musings
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Finding Hope in Fantasy
November 27, 2018
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Lifestories
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I Don’t Want to Lose Another Best Friend
November 18, 2018
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Lifestories
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What’s a Same-Sex Celibate Partnership?
November 14, 2018
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Musings
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Popular
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My Two Greatest Struggles as a Man
November 12, 2018
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Manly Monday
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Video
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YOBcast Episode 043: Body Image
November 9, 2018
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Podcast
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A Man Like All the Other Men?
November 6, 2018
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Lifestories
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October
2018
State of the YOB! October 2018
October 31, 2018
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State of the YOB
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Video
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When Someone Comes Out to You
October 30, 2018
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Musings
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Abandoning My New Life to Care for My Father
October 26, 2018
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Lifestories
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Should I Let My Daughter Put Makeup On Me?
October 23, 2018
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Lifestories
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Fighting Masculine Insecurities on Spring Break
October 19, 2018
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Lifestories
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Temptation and Triggers and My Worst Birthday Ever
October 16, 2018
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Lifestories
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YOBcast Episode 042: Generations
October 12, 2018
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Podcast
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Recognizing National Coming Out Day
October 11, 2018
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Conversations
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Jesus Wants Us All to Come Out
October 8, 2018
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Manly Monday
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Hundreds of Denominations But Only Two Options for Sexuality?
October 5, 2018
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Musings
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The Joys and Sorrows of a Highly Sensitive Man
October 2, 2018
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Lifestories
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September
2018
State of the YOB! September 2018
September 28, 2018
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State of the YOB
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Video
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How God Provided in My Midlife Loneliness
September 26, 2018
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Lifestories
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I’m Still Ashamed to Talk About My Sexuality
September 21, 2018
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Lifestories
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Popular
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My Battle with Male Body Image
September 18, 2018
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Lifestories
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Popular
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YOBcast Episode 041: Why Side B
September 14, 2018
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Podcast
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Coming Out at College
September 12, 2018
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Lifestories
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Is Jesus Still With Me?
September 10, 2018
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Manly Monday
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A Personal, Vulnerable Conversation
September 7, 2018
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Lifestories
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Singleness in a Silhouette
September 4, 2018
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Lifestories
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Our New Bonus Podcast: The YOBALOGUE
September 1, 2018
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News
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Podcast
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August
2018
My Midlife Move 3,000 Miles Away
August 30, 2018
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Lifestories
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Is YOB Going a New Direction?!
August 27, 2018
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Manly Monday
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Fighting With My Best Friend
August 24, 2018
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Lifestories
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Side B Friendships are Hard
August 21, 2018
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Lifestories
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YOBcast Episode 040: Change
August 17, 2018
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Podcast
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Reconnecting With a Friend Who Left Me
August 14, 2018
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Lifestories
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Revoice 2018: Taking the Church Wherever “Here” Leads
August 9, 2018
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Conversations
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Popular
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Giving Up On My Dreams for a Wife and Kids
August 7, 2018
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Lifestories
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Check Out Our New Resources!
August 1, 2018
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News
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July
2018
My Midlife Crisis Kicks Off a New Life
July 27, 2018
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Lifestories
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The Joys and Sorrows of Being an Introvert
July 24, 2018
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Lifestories
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Finding Another Word for “Brother”
July 20, 2018
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Musings
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My Jesus Journey Leads Me Here
July 16, 2018
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Lifestories
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Embarking Upon My Midlife Crisis
July 13, 2018
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Lifestories
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A Challenge to Our YOB Readers
July 10, 2018
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Musings
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Finding Hope for Relationships and Hope in Jesus
July 6, 2018
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Conversations
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Why I Like “Queer Eye”
July 3, 2018
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Musings
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Popular
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June
2018
Can Christians Celebrate Pride Month?
June 27, 2018
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Conversations
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How to Follow the Will of God
June 25, 2018
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Manly Monday
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Video
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Unearthing the Courage to Love
June 22, 2018
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Lifestories
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Older and Single: Aftermath of My Friend’s Suicide
June 19, 2018
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Lifestories
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The Male Imprints Left On Us
June 13, 2018
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Lifestories
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Our YOBBERS Retreat Was the Worst
June 11, 2018
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Manly Monday
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Video
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I’m an Other Brother Too
June 8, 2018
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Lifestories
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Optimism!
June 5, 2018
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Lifestories
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