Our Patreon originally launched with a handful of folks pledging to cover site and equipment costs, and it’s since grown into a thriving community meeting in various forms and regularity, digital and otherwise. We’d be honored to have your support as you join the fold!

YOBBERS! Community | Your Other Brothers Patreon $5/mo Tier
$5 / MONTH

Gain access to our secret (not publicly visible) YOBBERS Facebook group and/or private Discord server! Agreement to group guidelines required for membership (closed to 18+ males with a traditional sexual ethic).

Provide questions or comments for upcoming podcasts and contribute to group discussions with fellow patrons.

Watch and participate in monthly Facebook Live broadcasts with Tom, site authors, group moderators, and other community members.

Attend yearly in-person and digital retreats with fellow patrons.

Listen exclusively to our monthly bonus podcast, The YOBaLOGUE.


$10 / MONTH

Receive regular invitations to 90-minute Zoom video conference calls (“Zoom Rooms”) with Tom, site authors, and fellow patrons! We generally meet the 2nd and 4th weeks of each month on various Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays from 8:30-10pm ET.

​We take our first 45 minutes together to check in with one another, along with meeting any new patrons, before diving into a deeper discussion topic for our next 45 minutes. These topics generally follow our most recent podcast episode.

​Calls are closed to 18+ males with a traditional sexual ethic. Join us for any/all of our 90 minutes together!

​Join us also to hear about any upcoming YOB news and content before anyone else, and get priority placement with any podcast suggestions!

​Plus, all lower-tier rewards.


$15 / MONTH

Receive monthly invitations to the YOBBERS Book Club! Each month on Zoom we’ll discuss a different book relating to faith, sexuality, and/or masculinity.

​We generally meet on the third Wednesday of each month from 8-10pm ET. Come to Book Club having read the book of the month, and bring any comments or questions for the group! Stay for any or all of our two hours together. Calls closed to 18+ males with a traditional sexual ethic.

​Suggest books for future book club entries!

​Join our private Book Club channel on our YOB Discord server to continue the conversation after Zoom.

Plus, all lower-tier rewards.


$25 / MONTH

Individually chat with YOB editor/cofounder Tom for a 15-minute Zoom call each month! Male or female or wherever you fall on the sexuality/spirituality spectrum, he’d love to talk with you.

​These one-on-one calls with community members generally happen the first week of each month with a 3-hour window on some Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday night (generally 6-9pm ET).

​Share what’s happening in your life, including how we can be praying for you, and offer any content/community feedback for YOB.

​Also receive a signed and messaged copy of Tom’s book, Struggle Central — or send him your copy to personalize!

​Plus, all lower-tier rewards.


$50 / MONTH

Receive our premier white diner mug, featuring our podcast sign-off! It reads “you are not alone” on the front and “even the sparrow finds a home” on the back.

​Plus, all lower-tier rewards.


YOB Merch Bundle
$100 / MONTH

Receive one each of exclusive merch items as they become available! Starting with our premier “You Are Not Alone” diner mug, “You Are Not Alone” 6×1.5-in. sticker, our 3×3-in. YOB logo sticker, and 2×2-in. YOB logo magnet.

​Our expanding YOB store is also soon to feature: shirts, hoodies, posters, caps, and more.

​If you have any additional suggestions for YOB products, please let us know!

​Plus, all lower-tier rewards.