Welcome, friend.

We’re glad you found us. Settle into your coziest seat as we tell you a story — our story.

Our stories take the form of blogs, podcasts, and videos. Journey with us however and wherever your heart leads.

As you navigate around our community, we hope you feel at home with us. Feel free to introduce yourself with a comment or an email to any of our authors. We'd love to hear from you.

Who knows? Perhaps our story will soon become your own.

Just remember. You are not alone. Even the sparrow finds a home.

Walking with you,

Your Other Brothers

Retreat Posts (and More) Coming Soon!

We just held our second annual YOBBERS retreat for our financial supporters and community members on Patreon. As a result, the blog hasn't been as "regular" as usual. Don't worry; we'll get back on track soon enough!

Self-Hatred and the Struggles of Being Gay

As a kid, I said a lot of derogatory things about LGBTQ+ people. I cringe at the things I remember saying. When I realized I was gay, all of that hatred that I showed to others turned in on myself. That realization drove me to reparative therapy. The logic makes sense: I hate gay people, I am gay — thus, I need to not be gay.

YOBcast Episode 050: Emotional Attachment

We're back! After a brief summer hiatus, we return with our landmark fiftieth episode. Join Tom, Ryan, and Jacob sharing stories of emotional attachment: the good ways we attach to other men, and the not-so-good ways we attach. It's a callback to a previous episode on emotional dependency. We differentiate between "dependency" and "attachment" and share both our positive and negative experiences in relationship with other men.

State of the YOB! April 2019

The scenery may have changed, but the game is still the same! Despite the melted candle. It's our monthly roundup of all things YOB, from our blog to our podcast to our video channel. Check out our content from April.