We’re glad you’re here – however you found us, or however providence may have brought you into our story, as we believe He once invited us.

Settle in and turn some pages, or listen to some episodes. We hope you feel at home with us as we navigate these matters of faith, sexuality, and masculinity. Together. Ever and always together.

If you feel so bold, introduce yourself with a comment or an email. We’d love to hear from you. Or lurk a while, feel us out. We love our lurkers, too.

Now and evermore, we hope you realize the truth that’s forever changed our lives: You are not alone. Even the sparrow finds a home.

Who knows, perhaps our wild little story is already becoming some of your own? After all, it’s how we all arrived here once upon a time. And there’s always room for one more in this boat . . . as the journey continues . . .


Your Other Brothers


How Can I Believe People Truly Love Me?
How Can I Believe People Truly Love Me?

All I wanted was to live a fantasy every weekend: to believe that some man wanted me. That he loved me just so I could take my mind off all the negative things I felt about myself. After 29 years of living that life and never once finding happiness or love, God in His own way brought me back to Him and the church. However, I also started experiencing added health issues.


YOB ConvoCast 059: Tom & Erin Want Your Other Sisters to be a Thing!
YOB ConvoCast 059: Tom & Erin Want Your Other Sisters to be a Thing!

Tom welcomes our first woman to the ConvoCast – an in-studio guest, no less! We’ve been talking with Erin for almost a year now about the prospect of starting a Your Other Sisters community. Today we finally introduce her to our listening audience as we reference her recent blog on YOB’s impact on her life! We also give a shout-out to Matt as the only other fellow indigenous person on this podcast, learn about a significant difference between masculinity and femininity, and discover why Charlotte is SO great.


Support YOB with Our New STORE!
Support YOB with Our New STORE!

After 5+ years, we've finally launched a YOB store! Check out our "You Are Not Alone" diner mug, along with YOB stickers, a magnet, and Tom's first book. With more items to come!