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Your Other Brothers

Celebrating 3 Years on Patreon!

Today marks our third anniversary of being on Patreon! Patreon is how Your Other Brothers still exists after all these years — all thanks to monthly pledges from over 150 supporters around the world! If you believe in this work we're doing, would you consider supporting us?

I’m Just Not That Into Physical Touch Anymore

I actually find myself decreasingly needing — or even desiring — touch with other men. It's not completely gone, mind you. But the need/desire is considerably less. This is a fairly new development. I'm still unpacking the reasons, but I have some theories based on how my male friendships have transpired the last decade — many of them imploding.

YOBcast Episode 053: Brothers! w/ Jacob & Nate

Jacob's older brother, Nate, joins us for a deep-dive into their relationship: how Jacob came out to his brother, Nate's reaction as a straight guy, their parents' dynamic, and their respective struggles with pornography. It's a cinematic storytelling session full of laughs and tearful takes alike. Beyond their brotherly story, we get to know Nate (including his personality styles and love languages), learn about Nate's friendship with Tom, and partake in a "brotherly bridge" all about capris. Yes, capris — the pant.

MANLY MONTHLY PREMIERE!

We're BACK! Introducing our new (totally not old) video series: the MANLY MONTHLY! I talk the new series format and give some highlights of this past summer, including hosting our second YOBBERS retreat and attending the second Revoice conference. I also close with a quick dive into John 6 and why, above all other paths, Jesus is the one we're following at YOB.