Ben joins Tom in-studio for a conversation on his sexual identity as we continue “Spanning the Spectrum” this summer. Ben shares about being married to his best friend, a woman, for the last 15 years and why he opts for queer over bi as his primary identifier. He discloses some of the challenges in this identification as he explains (or defends) himself with certain Christians. He also reveals the joys of his orientation, including how he and his wife have opened their home as a refuge for other queer folks.


Do you also identify as queer, and how has your journey taken you this identification? What’s your greatest struggle as well as your deepest joy in your sexuality?

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