Discovering Vulnerable Community for the First Time
Back in high school, I lived a double life. I enjoyed spending time with my friends and the youth...
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YOBcast Episode 032: Marriage
Is opposite-sex marriage a feasible path for guys with same-sex attraction? Tom and Elliott welcome back Corey and his wife, Kate. We talk the ins and outs of their “mixed orientation” marriage. Their high school romance. Their engagement. Their wedding night. Their journey to conferences. Their marriage.
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More Than Our Sexuality, Part 2
We love talking about meaningful, rarely discussed topics on this podcast; sometimes, though, it’s just good to laugh. We are more than our struggles, more than our weaknesses, and more than our sexuality. Tom and Elliott welcome back Frank and Joel for a follow-up to one of our more “controversial” episodes.
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YOBcast Episode 026: Girls
Tom and Elliott welcome back Bradley and Frank for a discussion on girls. We cover friendship, mothers, and dating as we circle back to our concept of masculinity: how do girls affect our view of ourselves?
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YOBcast Episode 025: Best Friends
Tom and Elliott welcome back Tom’s younger brother, Andy, for his second YOBcast appearance. Also appearing for his second show is Dean, one of our authors who also happens to be Andy’s best friend. We talk about their relationship as best friends and what having a best friend means to all of us.
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Starting My Teenage Double Life
As my childhood entered a big transition phase, I started dealing with it through unhealthy self-reliance. This created a sort of double life.
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When Self-Reliance Was My Norm
Honestly, I would rather not go back to middle school — but telling my story necessitates...
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My Straight Friend Was Emotionally Dependent on Me
Emotional dependency. Such a fun topic. Many of us SSA (same-sex attracted) brothers know the...
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YOBcast Episode 018: Sports
Some boys find success and belonging in the world of sports. Many others do not. How do our sports...
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Discovering the Heart of My Nudist Desires
My nudist desires have never been entirely sexual. I’ve long known that it comes from a deep desire for intimacy. To be known fully as a man by other men.
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