Do I Still Pray the Gay Away?
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When they hear I'm attracted to men but married to a woman, straight people, particularly Christians, sometimes ask if I expect my attractions to "change"...
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How I’ve Thrived in Intentional Community
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If there's one thing that stands out about me, it's intentional community. As a single Christian guy with same-sex attraction, I find that I fight...
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Do I Follow the God of Yes or the God of No?
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Right on cue, in walks that cute guy again. Instantly, I'm back to spiraling, back to wondering if this faith thing can really work out...
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Self-Hatred and the Struggles of Being Gay
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As a kid, I said a lot of derogatory things about LGBTQ+ people. I cringe at the things I remember saying. When I realized I was...
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Is Being “Side B” Just Internalized Homophobia?
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Do I live the way I live purely because of the way I was raised? Do I still harbor any internalized homophobia of myself and...
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Finding Humility Through Beauty at the YOBBERS Retreat
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Humility is not about being hard on yourself; it's about fighting the urge to stand at the center of it all. As I stood there...
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That One Summer My Friend Declared His Love for Me
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How was I to respond to my friend's declaration? After everything that had happened in France, I felt even more confused about relationships and sexuality....
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What I Learned from My Midlife Crisis by Read Post
I reached a point of knowing I could trust God, and I was able to choose a more adventurous, challenging life to accomplish more of...
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How I’ll Heal in the Next Life by Read Post
God and I are going to have some time alone together at the beginning of the next life. For the wounds to heal, for the...
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How God Provided in My Midlife Loneliness by Read Post
Arriving at my new house, I found no one there to greet me. I knew where my new housemates hid the key, so I let...
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