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  • Why I Want to be LGBT: A Follow-Up
    Why I Want to be LGBT: A Follow-Up
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    If telling someone I'm gay allows me to be a light in their life, then I will do it. If saying I am SSA Side B allows me to be a light in their life, I will do that as well. At the end of the day, my desires are secondary to the Great Commission, God's call on the life of every
  • Discovering the Heart of My Nudist Desires
    Discovering the Heart of My Nudist Desires
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    My nudist desires have never been entirely sexual. I've long known that it comes from a deep desire for intimacy. To be known fully as a man by other
  • Real Men Don't Take Baths
    Real Men Don’t Take Baths
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    "How could you take a bath?" The question seemed ludicrous to me. I walked a lot that day. I was tired. My legs were sore. The bath was hot. This guy is a genuinely nice guy who loves God. But he's bought into a delusional sense of masculinity based more on actions than
  • Keeping Healthy Boundaries with Another SSA Guy
    Keeping Healthy Boundaries with Another SSA Guy
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    We were always careful to keep appropriate, healthy boundaries even though we knew we were not sexually attracted to each other. I think we were just cautious of others gossiping if we appeared to be too close. Unfortunately, churches like ours are especially prone to gossip about SSA
  • He Doesn't Want to be My Friend Anymore
    He Doesn’t Want to be My Friend Anymore
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    He decided he didn't want to be my friend anymore. I'm not entirely sure who was more to blame, and this not knowing still plagues
  • Why I Need a Community
    Why I Need a Community
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    That's why you need a community. Whatever hurt you experience, you have people who can carry you on your path to
  • My Passion Comes from Pain
    My Passion Comes from Pain
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    I know what it's like to hurt, to have nowhere to go. This is why I keep ministering to people who need to hear that Jesus loves
  • Bro Cuddling: A Beginner’s Guide
    Bro Cuddling: A Beginner’s Guide
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    I've cuddled with many fantastic men, all same-sex attracted. I can say with absolute certainty that these moments have been some of the most beautiful, moving, and totally platonic expressions of intimate love. I'd recommend reading these basic pointers based on my own past experiences with bro
  • My Battle with Male Body Image
    My Battle with Male Body Image
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    I remember being envious of the other boys who seemed so free in their bodies, so free with their bodies. I remember being envious of their slenderness, and later on, their muscles. I remember lying in bed wishing so hard that I could wake up and be miraculously thin. I remember knowing that I shouldn't hate my body but having no idea how to
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