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  • Why I Want to be LGBT: A Follow-Up
    Why I Want to be LGBT: A Follow-Up
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    If telling someone I'm gay allows me to be a light in their life, then I will do it. If saying I am SSA Side B allows me to be a light in their life, I will do that as well. At the end of the day, my desires are secondary to the Great Commission, God's call on the life of every
  • Discovering the Heart of My Nudist Desires
    Discovering the Heart of My Nudist Desires
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    My nudist desires have never been entirely sexual. I've long known that it comes from a deep desire for intimacy. To be known fully as a man by other
  • Real Men Don't Take Baths
    Real Men Don’t Take Baths
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    "How could you take a bath?" The question seemed ludicrous to me. I walked a lot that day. I was tired. My legs were sore. The bath was hot. This guy is a genuinely nice guy who loves God. But he's bought into a delusional sense of masculinity based more on actions than
  • Keeping Healthy Boundaries with Another SSA Guy
    Keeping Healthy Boundaries with Another SSA Guy
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    We were always careful to keep appropriate, healthy boundaries even though we knew we were not sexually attracted to each other. I think we were just cautious of others gossiping if we appeared to be too close. Unfortunately, churches like ours are especially prone to gossip about SSA
  • He Doesn't Want to be My Friend Anymore
    He Doesn’t Want to be My Friend Anymore
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    He decided he didn't want to be my friend anymore. I'm not entirely sure who was more to blame, and this not knowing still plagues
  • Why I Need a Community
    Why I Need a Community
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    That's why you need a community. Whatever hurt you experience, you have people who can carry you on your path to
  • My Passion Comes from Pain
    My Passion Comes from Pain
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    I know what it's like to hurt, to have nowhere to go. This is why I keep ministering to people who need to hear that Jesus loves
  • My Battle with Male Body Image
    My Battle with Male Body Image
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    I remember being envious of the other boys who seemed so free in their bodies, so free with their bodies. I remember being envious of their slenderness, and later on, their muscles. I remember lying in bed wishing so hard that I could wake up and be miraculously thin. I remember knowing that I shouldn't hate my body but having no idea how to
  • Overcoming My Fear of Coming Out
    Overcoming My Fear of Coming Out
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    I still get tense and nervous and start shaking just thinking about coming out again. Some days it's better; other days it's
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